Dear Childreach: How do I explain Remembrance Day to a child?

It is important to teach children about the significance of Remembrance Day. The age and development of your child should ultimately determine how and what you will discuss. Start out simple, and elaborate as your child grows and matures. With a toddler for example, you might start with making a poppy craft and talking about a poppy. As your child gets older, you can move on to talking about peace, and finally about war, sacrifice, and honouring those who have and continue to serve.

Here are some things that might be helpful:

• Does your family know any veterans or have any relatives that have served in the armed forces? Showing your child photos of family members or artifacts like medals and letters can be a helpful way to talk about Remembrance Day.

• Books are an excellent way to help explain complex and hard to understand topics. There are many children’s books available that can help make Remembrance Day meaningful for your child. Visit your local library where they can connect you with a book that is appropriate given your child’s age.

• Many communities mark November 11 with a special event - check with your local newspaper to get details on Remembrance Day parades, assemblies or gatherings at a cenotaph. Depending on your child’s age and development, you may want to consider participating.

• Leading by example is a wonderful way to teach our children. Buy and wear a poppy. If you recognize a service man or woman, take a moment to thank them. If you are not able to participate in a community event on November 11, consider having a moment of silence at home.

Lest we forget.

Parent Education Team